Girls’ Spiritual Retreat: Faith, Fellowship and Growth

Story by Lauren Esveld

The air buzzed with anticipation as the girls of Spencerville Adventist Academy (SAA) gathered for a day dedicated to them. This wasn’t just another school event; it was a chance to step away, connect and nurture their faith. This year’s school theme, “Seek First His Kingdom,” became a guiding light for the retreat’s theme, “Jesus is my Lifeline.”

The messages from the main speaker, Andrea Jakobsons, pastor of the Kettering (Ohio) church, felt like a warm embrace. She spoke of a freedom and joy found only in a relationship with Jesus—a lifeline that remains even when everything else fades. The breakout sessions weren’t just activities; they were moments of shared vulnerability as well as times to explore the journeys of life.

Consultant and supportive parent Ellenor Paul O’Neil presented the “Let’s Get Real” workshop, which provided a space where honesty reigned. It wasn’t about perfect facades; it was about the messy, beautiful reality of being a teenage girl. The discussions on navigating friendships and overcoming “mean girl” drama weren’t just theoretical; they were fueled by real experiences and real emotions. The girls learned to communicate with honesty and to treat each other with the Platinum Rule, which states that one should invest time in discovering how others want to be treated. Collectively, the girls understood that healthy conflict is a step toward stronger bonds. “Our students were challenged to not just be nice, but authentically kind,” says Carmen Esposito, the event’s organizer and SAA’s school counselor. “We felt God’s spirit working in our hearts.”

The “Girls’ Talk” session in the library was a space where questions weren’t judged, where doubts were shared and where support flowed freely. The intimate atmosphere provided a moment of genuine connection and a reminder that each one of them is a part of a supportive community.

“Chicas’ Night” was a celebration of sisterhood. SAA was transformed into a vibrant space filled with laughter, music and creative expression. It was a time to let go of worries and anxiety, bond with friends and create memories that would last long after the retreat ended.

All through the day, the girls visited the nicely decorated prayer room, where they were able to talk with Jesus privately and in groups. As the retreat ended, the girls say they left with a renewed sense of self, a deeper connection to their faith and a stronger bond with their peers.

Sophomore Evelyn Yanes shares, “This year’s girls’ retreat was a huge blessing. God’s presence was truly upon us as we praised Him throughout all the different activities we had that day.”